
Every kindness extended a stranger reduces a little the strangeness of the world.
From The Easy Virtue, one of 296 sayings written by John Sarris over thirty years.
From Alfred’s journal
A man at the bus shelter on Mill Street gave half his sandwich to a woman I had never seen before, and neither of them said much about it. I used to think kindness between strangers was mostly a performance, a way of being seen behaving well, and for years I watched for the audience. There was no audience yesterday. It was cold and the bus was late and she ate it with her gloves on. Every kindness extended a stranger reduces a little the strangeness of the world, and I sat on the shelter roof trying to work out whether the woman was less strange to him afterward or only less strange to me, watching. The bus came before I got anywhere with it.


He reads what you tell him and writes a page of his journal back, with a few of these chosen for you. It costs nothing and asks for nothing.
Have it on something
More like it
- Your place in the world does not depend on who acknowledges it.
- Hope is longing made easier by faith.
- Hope draws on a power you cannot see or touch but can feel in still moments.
- Too many run out of hope before they run out of time.
- Hope for a better future, then head that way.
- Everything is possible, because nothing real is ever lost.



